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By Katie Terrell, Editor
My grandfather died when I was 16. It was sudden and unexpected
and when I heard the news I feared I would never laugh again. You
see, no one could make me laugh like my Grandpa Lowell.
He wore a medal around his neck, an award for bravery, he said.
I have that medal now, a medic alert necklace declaring him allergic
to penicillin.
He laughed so hard at his own jokes that my grandmother used to
say he got “tickled to death.” He called my dad, his son-in-law,
“what’s his name,” even after my parents had been married 20 years.
He wrote poetry about springtime and family and a dog named Buck.
He taught junior high Math, named his cars and always wanted a boat
and motor.
The last time I saw him he hugged and kissed me and said, “I love
you, Pooky.” It wasn’t because he knew we’d never see each other
again in this life; it was just his way.
These were the kinds of memories shared at Tom Mullen’s memorial
service, too. Tom was remembered as a writer, a sports nut and a
spiritual champion. His sage advice about preaching was quoted by
a former student, “Number one, talk about God. Number two, talk
about 20 minutes. If you can’t do one, do the other.” He was remembered
for his humor and his passion and his wisdom, legacies that he leaves
behind in each of us who were lucky enough to know him.
In this issue we celebrate Tom’s life and legacy with tributes
from just a few of the countless individuals who were impacted by
Tom’s presence in this world. We honor his ministry of humor by
looking at humor in the Bible (pp. 14-16), humor and vocal ministry
(p. 46) and whether or not Quakers can be funny (p. 31).
I was blessed to have known Tom in various capacities, from reading
and publishing his books, to receiving a writing fellowship in his
name, to participating in conferences and retreats where he was
present. The last time I saw Tom was at a Quaker Hill Conference
Center luncheon. He read a historic account from the early days
of Quaker Hill and brought it to life with his inflections and the
cadence of his voice. He tickled me to death, just like my grandfather
had done. I know that my grandfather would be grateful to Tom for
making me laugh again. I pray that each of you has experienced the
joy of knowing someone who makes you laugh and think and love (pp.
12-13).
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12 30 Minutes
with Tom Mullen
Philip Gulley
14 Enjoying the Bible's Humor
Howard Macy
18 That Summer of '54
Tom Newlin
17 Innocents Abroad
Tom Mullen
20 Tom Mullen: My Writing Coach, My Mentor, My Friend
J. Brent Bill
21 Wisdom from Tom Mullen
22 Friends United Press Editors Celebrate a Life Well-Lived
27 Tributes
28 More Wisdom from Tom Mullen
30 Two Funerals and
a Party
Tom Mullen
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Departments
6 Sacred Moments
Sylvia Graves
7 News from Friends United Meeting
31 Ask Tom
32 Peace Notes
Peace Begins With Me
Michael Brand, 9th Grade
34 Reviews
36 Passages
40 Meeting Directory
43 FUM Member Yearly
Meetings
44 Classifieds
46 Perspectives
Humor and Vocal Ministry in Friends Worship
Michael David Jay
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We are grateful to the sponsoring organizations that helped fund
this special tribute issue: Friends Fellowship Community, Earlham
College, Earlham School of Religion, Yale Divinity School, FWCC, Richmond
Friends Schools and Richmond Church of the Brethren; and for those
who provided photographs: FWCC, Quaker Hill Conference Center, Sylvia
Graves and Sarah Mullen-Northrop.
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